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What Happens After You Die? The Mystery of Life After Death Solved!

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What happens after you die? What is it like on the other side? These are questions that have been puzzling mankind for eternity.

Hey Grandma, What Happens After You Die?

To be a professional medium, you must know about what happens after you die. In June 2000, I was preparing to embark on my path as a professional medium, but I didn’t have answers. So, I asked my grandma on the other side.


That night I was feeling my grandma a lot. It was her birthday or right around her birthday. I was hanging out in my small New York City apartment with my baby, my wife, and my cat.  When I got up to turn the air conditioner up, a little white feather floated down from the ceiling.

I lived in an apartment in the middle of Manhattan, and the windows were closed all day. There were no birds in the apartment and no way that a feather got into my room. I knew it was my grandma getting my attention by manifesting that feather.

The Other Side

I went back to my bed and went into meditation because I wanted to connect with her. As soon as I got into that state of mind, I felt her. I asked grandma, “What happens after you die? I’m about to embark on this path of a professional medium, and people are going to ask me. I need to know what it’s like on the other side”.

As soon as I asked her, I was transported into a beautiful forest. There was a brilliant emerald green that was ten times more colorful and vibrant than anything here on earth. I was feeling it, not just seeing it.

When I came out of it, I said to grandma, “It’s like being in a beautiful forest”. She said, “For you, it’s like being in a beautiful forest.” That spoke volumes to me. At that moment, I understood what happens after you die. I had my answer right then and there.

Most of my friends will tell you I’m a beach person, but my favorite place is the deep woods. It’s the place that I feel most at home and most at peace. I’m a very avid hiker and backpacker, that is truly my happiest place on earth. It made perfect sense that a forest would be my heaven.

What Happens After You Die Secrets Revealed

My grandma went on to say, “Adam imagine a time when you were the most joyful in your entire life. Or a time you were more in love with somebody than you’ve ever been.  Now multiply that feeling by ten. That’s what we get to experience every moment here in the spirit world. Death is nothing to fear, but rather something to embrace. It’s your reward for a job well done.”

My grandmother, Mary Meyer, and I had a special bond. It meant a lot to me that she was the one to come through and to give me this information.

She went on to tell me that when we cross over, we realize that separation is an illusion and that we’re all part of a unified field of consciousness. We’re all connected to all life and that God and angels are real.

Young Children and Imagination

Grandma told me that many things born out of a child’s imagination, including unicorns and fairies, are real. Maybe not all the monsters under their beds, but it’s all part of collective consciousness.

She explained that there are different levels of reality, called different planes or dimensions. Young children and people that are open can see into the other dimensions. There is a reason that young children without the knowledge of God or angels, talk about them. It’s because they’re not separated as much as grown-ups from the other planes of existence and reality. 

Heaven is Real – The Truth About What Happens After You Die

My grandmother told me there’s no hell, only heaven. However, there are different levels on the other side. Depending on how well we live our life will dictate the level we go to in the spirit world. 

People who do wrong or are negative people go to heaven or the spirit world also, but don’t go to the highest levels of joy and love. They need to learn more and process more. Life is a spiritual growing experience, and when we go to the other side the growth continues. We prepare for our next lifetime as well.

The Life Review, Our Ego, and the Truth about Manifestation

When we cross over, we go through a life review.  My grandmother told me that we get to go over our whole lives so we can learn, examine, and grow from there. 

After physical death, we lose our egos and see how we created our reality. Most importantly, we understand that everything is energy. Every thought, feeling, and belief creates our reality here on earth right down to the minutest detail. 

The spirit world is a mental realm and anything you think about manifests immediately. The physical world is much denser, so it takes much more time.

Death is an Awakening – This is What Happens After You Die

People in physical form often come under the illusion that they are separate from God or Spirit. They remain in the illusion that their reality is independent from what they’re putting out into the world.  However, the truth is our reality is an exact mirror to what we put out there.

My grandma explained that when we cross over, we gain a higher perspective. We realize that time has a different meaning. Whether you were alive for ten years or a hundred years, does not matter when you get to the other side. It’s quality, not quantity that counts in the spirit world.

She explained that there’s no pain when we reach the other side. It’s like we wake up from a dream, and any pain that we experienced before we crossed over is gone, and it’s as if it never happened.

We also get to meet our guides in heaven. She told me that as soon as she crossed over, there were people that she remembered but somehow forgot in the living. 

Death is not a negative thing. It’s a natural thing, an awakening.

When You Lose the Fear of Dying, You Lose the Fear of Living

Messages from the Other Side

The messages I receive from my grandma are likely to be similar to messages that you’d receive if you connect with your loved ones and ask them similar questions. The advice they have for us in the living is remarkably simple.

Message #1 – Never Be Afraid of Death

Death is nothing to fear. When we lose the fear of dying, we lose the fear of living. To lose the fear of dying means that you can start to live your life with adventure, meaning, and purpose. 

You don’t fear taking appropriate risks or the ultimate ending.

Those of us that do mediumship do it to validate the continuity of life.  We also empower others to lose the fear of dying, so they may lose the fear of living. What happens after you die is pure bliss. There’s nothing to fear.

Message#2 – Never Ever Blame Others
Another message from grandma is don’t blame others.  We create our reality. Other people may show up in places in our lives to give us a hard time, but we shape our lives.

Message #3 – Each Lifetime is a Spiritual Process
Each lifetime is a spiritual process to embrace Spirit and follow a spiritual path. Your job in this lifetime is to heal from 3,000 plus years of patriarchal rule.  It’s important to heal from all the past lives, all the suffering from other lifetimes, from our ancestry, and the world around us.

We’re in a great awakening now, and we are all here in this lifetime for a divine purpose. Grandma tells me that I am here to heal. I’ve done a lot of healing in my lifetime.

Message #4 – Challenge is Your Greatest Gift

You learn more through challenges than anything in life. Embrace difficulty. You grow and learn to overcome your fears when you overcome challenges. It clears you from your programming. If you can overcome your fears, you can overcome your programs.

Message #5 – The Way You Live is the Way You Die
The way you die reflects the way that you live, so live well. Be sure to have fun and enjoy life.  Take quiet time to reflect. Lead a good life filled with love.

What Happens After You Die?

I learned a lot about life from my grandmother, but I learned even more from her about what happens after you die. For me, it’s all part of mediumship training, meditation, and psychic development. She gave me my first look into the other side, and that meant so much to me.   

Life is a spiritual journey.  When you know what happens after you die, you can learn how to live a better life. The journey doesn’t end when we leave our bodies, it’s just the beginning. Live well, my friends.

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